Hello!

I am a female in my 40s seeking pen pals/friends to exchange ideas, share points of view, discuss cultural aspects, recipes, memes, songs, hobbies, and anything else of interest (any field). I am not looking for companionship per se – companionship is a consequence and not the main goal here. I am looking for ways of sharing what I know, but also learning new things from others/seeing life through other people’s lenses. A meaningful connection is a two-way street: no room for selfishness here.

Please reach out only if you:

• Are not seeking a relationship or situationship of any kind, particularly if you are unhappy in your current relationship and need emotional compensation.

• Are looking for more than just a way to pass the time (don’t reach out if you just feel bored).

• Have a clear sense of what you want in a pen pal/friend.

I could share much more here, but I look forward to continuing the conversation when you message me!

P.S. While I am open to possibilities, I would prefer to correspond with individuals over 35. And I strongly prefer pen pals! I truly enjoy writing and appreciate the charm of old-fashioned correspondence (the pressure of everyday texting can feel overwhelming sometimes).