Disclaimer: Pls read my post as most people never seem to do. "Hey", "What ur doing" replies get ignored. Also I'm a transgirl, do not DM of you have problems with that or demand to know what I look like. I do not have the tolerance to act all kind if I get trashy, negative, snarky DMs or comments (that includes most of you non military guys who feel so pathetically offended), or if you say you're not willing to reciprocate my level of friendship. DO NOT msg me if you just want casual chats, also if you're DrUnK or BoReD

Have a friend I used to talk to nearly everyday but has been hella busy in the marines which makes me feel depressed missing our regular 5-12 hour talks (7 hrs is the average) and I'd like someone I can enjoy vc with regularly (we still talk but not much) where time flies by we don't notice it until we do.

Share random thoughts, things/feelings bothering me, someone I could open up when things aren't going good for me, and feeling like I truly matter to a friend, by actions and not just hollow words. Not being mansplained, or dismissed outright when I tried reaching out to potential guys who fumble the ball so hard and are blind doing so which happened recently and I vented about it.

What kind of a wholesome guy friend am I looking for?

I'm looking for a guy in the marines who is emblematic of the positive traits of being one like my friend as he always tries to be a better person and values my opinions or feelings, encouraging me to be more outspoken around him. He takes his job seriously of being a leader to his junior marines and anyone under him, so hoping to find someone like him as a friend.

Understandably, he's alr stationed back to the mainland this week after being overseas.

I would love to feel important maybe now but regardless I'm trying to make friends as he's encouraging me to do it for myself since he knows how guarded I am. So I'm hoping I could be a priority to the right guy friend where I feel content and happy.

I also want to introduce any other US marine friends to him I make from here, since while I'm an introvert, I'm not antisocial. He can be a lil protective of me though hence, I'd want someone to happily introduce to him as I'm very reluctant to make friends outside of him. I wanna make him happy too with him seeing me being happy.

I'll reward you with being loyal in a friendship, make you an important person in my life, active efforts to voice call or message as long as I feel the effort is reciprocated, which I often experience over-investing myself more in a friendship with the wrong people.

You don't have to be super well adjusted to be friends with me if you fit the requirements as long as you don't act like an asshole (not something to brag about and which I don't find amusing) instead, are the type of guy friend that strives to be a better man trait wise every single day. Honor. Commitment and all the other core values like courage too.

What are my interests?

My interests are bingewatching tv shows/movies, and rewatching them sometime, sharing music. So I like someone who is receptive to that as I would share and show to him movies/tv shows I love to watch. Am watching 24 (tv show) and it's ridiculously addicting

If you're 18-25, feel free to DM me if you're only seriously interested as I'm looking for a long-term friendship. And if you know what BAMCIS is (explain it to me in depth and what each acronym means), please mention it so I'm able to know people who read my post. Also kindly state your MOS as non-military people who fail to read my post just lazily google bamcis and then DM me, with mos, acting as double verification you've read my post and fulfill all or most of the requirements.

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Dealbreakers: If you're not willing to d*scord voice call because you have social anxiety, too bad... we won't mesh. I'm tired of talking to people who don't understand the level of deep friendship I'm wanting to replicate.

Also open to people who work in other branches and in law enforcement which even if not the same, I can still make an exception.

Include "oranges" in your DMs so I can know you read my post and you fit the requirements I'm looking for.