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Hey naughty wives, users, and mods,

I hope this finds you well. In light of recent events on this subreddit, and the stress of moderating other subreddits, I've decided to take a step back from moderating. I want to explain myself, but first, I'd like to start out by thanking the other moderators. You all were a pleasure to work with, and I wish you all the best.

Where to even begin? I've been a hotwife for almost six years now, and I adore the lifestyle and sharing my adventures with the community. I took up moderating thinking that maybe I could help run these subreddits and build them into a community that our users could enjoy just as much as I did. However, as I began to be a more involved mod, I gained a reputation. Most of you know me as the "Mod of Doom". I'm no nonsense, and I tried my hardest to moderate strictly but fairly. The truth is, no matter what you do, you can't make everyone happy. I'm human, I make mistakes. In my time as a moderator I've been told some of the most horrific and demeaning comments of my life. Everything from being called a nazi, to death threats, to shit talk about my personal life. That's my breaking point. Reddit is supposed to be fun! When the stress of moderating becomes so much that it affects my personal and family life, to me, it's not worth it anymore.

That being said, I refuse to put reddit above my personal life and mental health. I leave you all with this bit of personal perspective. Moderating is a truly thankless job, and no matter what decision they make, some of you may be left unhappy with the moderators. They're human, so please, be kind. They're trying their hardest.

Thank you to the community, the users, and especially the moderators who work so hard!

Your former mod of doom, a hotwife, and human being.

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