Might be I am overthinking about this, but for past few days i start believing that nothing turns you on most than giving best pleasure to your partner. Generally the people who seek random guy or girl to fuck around can have sex with anyone but in that cases we ended up satisfying ourselves only. But if we love someone or having lust for someone then we take it as duty to try our best to give pleasure to our partner and i believe when we do our best, we ended up satisfying ourselves.

I am married but have a girl in past with whom we had wild desires to fulfill but somehow couldnt do it. Now when i fantasize about her, i only think about giving pleasure to her which got noticed recently. I have never imagined her giving me a sex i want. I always imagined giving the sex she used to seek.

Has anyone thought about it ?