A few years ago, I deployed for 6 months. Nothing out of the ordinary. My wife took the opportunity to explore without my knowledge or permission. One day in ninth 3 of my deployment, I get a message from someone on Xbox, saying he knew my wife and needed to tell me something. I had left my Xbox at home, and decided to buy a new one once I got to my deployment destination. That’s how he got my gamer tag to message me. So I gave him my discord info and he messaged me and told me that he had bee’s sleeping with my wife, and that he didn’t know she was married until he stayed over there for a few days and she gave him a pair of my shorts to wear. I was furious, but weirdly kind of turned on and unsure if he was telling the truth . So I asked him for proof. He told me he would prove it later that day when he was over my place. So fast forward to later that day, I was playing COD, and he sent me a game invite. I accepted it and he told me to listen. It was my wife’s voice clear as day in the background. I didn’t say anything while we were gaming because I was listening to see what was going to happen. It was regular convo for like a match or 2 then he called her over and was quiet for a bit but I could hear movements. Next thing I hear is slurping and her asking him if he like that. She was sucking his dick. With no idea I could hear. I didn’t know what to do so I just listened. I got off the game after a while and masturbated and exploded everywhere. I don’t know why I was so turned on by that. I never said anything to let her know after that, and I never asked him to stop seeing her. Over the remaining 3 months he sent me all kinds of pics and videos of them. Shit she never mentioned being into, things I haven’t got her to do yet. Fast forward to a few months after I’m back from deployment, I had a bbq and invited him over. Her whole demeanor changed when she opened the door and it was him. She got nervous and flustered, but tried to play it off. She asked how we know each other and I told her we used to work together ( a lie). It was fun watching her reaction. It’s been 2 years since and we’re great friends. She still has no idea that I know