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I've recently read some comments on the sub about there needing to be more discussion about men's role in birth rates, not just women's. I agree, and as a man, would like to know what you all think is the best way men can change their behavior to help increase the birth rate? What are men doing know that drives the birth rate down? What are concrete examples of something men can do to help drive it up?
As a man, it is a huge problem when you date a woman for many years without proposing and without having kids. Because young woman are much more likely to find a husband, and if they waste those years with a man who doesn't marry them, most often they never marry and as a result don't have kids. So just not dating any woman for too long, if you know you won't marry her you should break up. Second is if man help when the kid is born, helping with house work, or with the child care.
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a lot of woman dont have the will to have kids when they are young, only to start wishing one a few years later. in my country we call this "the clock". and when this effect takes place, if she is not already married it makes it much harder for them.
unless she is very sure that she doesn't want those things, it is unfair to waste this period of her life ''just for fun''.