Hey guys this is my opinion but shared by many so please take the time to read it. I don’t speak for everyone but I do believe it’ll be widely agreed upon. I’m open for discussion in the comments too!
Step 1: When you first message ALWAYS send a few good photos! If you send a blank message it will always be ignored. Save us both time and send them so we don’t have to ask. I don’t ask
Step2: Include a little information about yourself… Age, experience level, interests sexually etc…
Step 3: Be ready to include a face picture. We ladies differ on when this needs to happen but i require it in an initial message. I get that privacy is important to many but quality ladies are fucking u strictly based on a dick and body photo. If you aren’t comfortable showing it you will struggle. Keep in mind that many of us ladies are verified posters/creators and you know with that information that your pics aren’t going to be catfished with. Definitely pay attention to who you know is real vs. Not
Step 4: Blank profiles are generally fake profiles… not always the case but I definitely immediately doubt guys with blank profiles. If you have a blank profile your success rate on Reddit will be vastly reduced. Have a solid profile with body/dick/and face pics if you can show that. Being able to see you’re likely real goes a longggggg way!
Step 5: Dick pic opinions vary… I like them in the initial message but with the other pics requested. Only having a profile with dick pics makes me think it’s your only good feature. For the love of all that is Holy PLEASE STOP sending toilet dick pics 😂🤢. If you send dick pics do some grooming and put effort into them.
Step 6: Remember meeting a wife is like a job interview. You have to put your best foot forward. If you’re sending three word DMs and low quality pics you’ll be ignored. Effort goes a LONG WAY!
Step 7: Be Prompt! Many of us ladies are full time moms and/or creators and time is very valuable so please try to get straight to it so we can avoid lots of back and forth. I lose DMs all the time so try and knock out your goal in a few messages. It’ll be a yes or no quickly so that helps us both.
I’m sure I’m forgetting stuff so ladies please comment additional stuff I missed! I’m open to discussion as well in the comments. This community will be better if we all improve it.
I’ll see a follow up and never saw the initial. Happens often
I’ll see a follow up and never saw the initial. Happens often
Comments go individually to my notifications. DMs get lumped. I go through them a few times a day. But that energy is honestly off putting. I literally just explained above that I struggle to keep up and you’re upset because I didn’t dm u back yet
I haven’t even seen it yet was my point
Just thirsty locals. It’s good at times and terrible at others. Not complaining just thought a post might help improve
I get that. I’ve never complained about getting too many. There’s no cap on pics
I’m getting about 500-1000 a day atm and 25-50 tags and untold comments. That’s why I haven’t been posting on my main. It’s overwhelming til it all calms down
I’ll see a follow up and never saw the initial. Happens often
I’ll see a follow up and never saw the initial. Happens often
I appreciate this! Remember also I have a 280k follower Twitter, my main Reddit is over 250k followers as well, plus my other medias. I literally made this account to help me find locals and have them not get lost in the DMs and comments but even still notifications all come in the same. It helps but it’s not fool proof to differentiate. Hopefully that comes off in a way that says I do try but I’m only one person
All true statements! Yah the worst is when I say “not my type” and they ask why. I’m like “do u want me to be mean, because that’s the only way it’ll be taken”. If I do answer they usually are like “damn ok”. Then I feel like an asshole. Can’t win lol. Now I just typically don’t reply to avoid that which is also rude. No win situation
Yah tbh most guys think girls on the internet are different than at a bar…. It’s the same necessary approach. The difference is you already know they want to link up because they’re literally telling you. All the guy has to do is not be weird or creepy…..
So did u see where I commented thank u? I didn’t realize I had to reply to private DMs
Yes is does. Obviously I have my preferences but that approach is mandatory
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My man cleans up on here lol. But his approach is pretty solid