I don't know if this would be possible to find this, but I would really like to find a buddy who is in the same boat as me and who is similar to me to try this with -- the kind of guy I could have been buddies with I real life if we had met some other way. So what I'm looking for is a guy who is also married with young kids, educated, with a professional job. Lawyer, Doctor, accountant, finance, mba type, or something like that. Successful, smart, level headed. Self confident but not an ass. SEC grad and football fan. Someone who works out to keep in shape but isn't necessarily a gym rat. Good looking. Preferably in mid 30s to early 40s and still young looking. Funny, good natured, and easy going. Friendly. Someone who loves his wife and kids and doesn't want to screw that up. Someone who thinks of himself as straight but maybe just doesn't get quite enough. Pretty inexperienced with this and who has always thought of himself as straight but maybe has jacked off thinking about this from time to time over the years or maybe jacked off together with a buddy at some point. Someone who isn't looking for anything romantic, for whom safety and discretion are the top priorities. Someone who hasn't done this much but would be curious to experiment and let the barriers down with a similar buddy. Nobody should have the slightest idea you are thinking about this. Hope to hear from someone in the same boat!