Why do they insist of accusing instead of complimenting? Mine would sit here and say I’ve gotten a bigger butt and I have back dimples because I’m clearly cheating and have been working out in some nefarious way. When I asked “since when?” They would say since we started dating or since before we started dating and clearly I’ve been up to no good since then. I don’t understand why they would do this instead of just complimenting me from the get-go. When I overthink I feel like it’s because they’re up to no good themselves and I want to express this but I know the point is mute. I feel it would be so much easier to build me up in instead of tearing me down and it really hurts…