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How to warn my friend about the manipulative guy i dated?
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Hey there!

So i have been dating this guy for about 6 months. He has a lot of narcisist traits and is pretty manipulative. When we started dating i sensed something was off, especially when he was love bombing me from the first date and went cold suddenly after the second date. We are not exclusive, never have been. We both have been dating other people too.

I am pretty sure this guy can be pretty toxic. He has caused me a lot of anxiety by implying that he cannot trust me anymore and does not respect me anymore because i did not immediately wanted to tell him what i told my female friend about him.

Also he tried to put his dick inside me without a condom and when i physically had to stop him die the third time, he even had the guts to have a discussion about it to try to convince me to do it anyway. He even told me that a few weeks ago i put his dick inside me without a condom. This is not true.

It is super important to him how others think of hij, he wants to be the good guy. Many people said he is manipulative and he always is very worried about those people talking badly about him.

One of my female friends started dating him. I am happy for her because he can be fun to hang out with, as long as he does not get too close. However.. she is super sweet, kinda innocent. I feel like i should warn her about him. I am just afraid that i will come over as jealous or whatever. She is seeing him in 2 weeks and i am not able to see her before, we only talk through text during this time.

Any advice would be really appreciated!

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