Hey peeps!

I was just wondering...

A while ago i met a guy who i clicked really well with. He quickly started love bombing me, however it felt genuine, as we connected extraordinary well. His words of love could have been true. Maybe he is someone who’s in for a chase and feels his feelings intensely without boundaries. Who knows.

This guy seems very sure of himself. I have to say, he is quite successful. I saw a lot of flags that made me think he is a narcissist:

• he ‘brags’ about whag he accomplished (showing trophies etc)
• he seems very sure of himself
• he likes shy/insecure girls
• he told me he loved me, contacted me daily and suddenly stopped contacting me after the last date
• he never asks about me or how i am doing over text
• he talks about himself when i’m with him and wen he asks about me, it looks fake
• he doesn’t show emotions when he talks about emotional things that happened in his life
• he manipulates girls (like me) in doing what he wants by complimenting them and make them feel special - for bdsm and fetish play

How can i know if this guy is a narcissist or just has a lack empathy and has a high self-esteem? I am genuinly wondering. Maybe he really liked me and just lost interest and moved on to the next girl. Someone told me that i cannot just call someone a narcissist, because it is a real, big disorder. How can i tell?