So I am 24F and dated a guy a year older than me for just over 2 years. Textbook lovebomb, devalue, discard.

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I don't need to go into details about how it happened because we all go through similar. But I am so worried about my life... I don't know who I am anymore.

-I studied nutrition in undergrad and used to love cooking, being healthy, etc. but so did he, and he would always tell me what I was cooking/doing wasn't good enough.

- I used to have goals for my life post-grad, and wanted to work in health/wellness, but I decided to move across the country for a job at a startup only to find myself laid off.

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After the lay-off I have been super depressed. I don't know where I am going. I am in a new state and I feel so lost. I am only 24 so people always tell me 'you have so much time' but i feel like I am going to make the wrong decisions on anything in my life because I have limited trust in judgement in myself.

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Can someone relate? Have encouraging words?I am just so tired and depressed at how my life has become this way and I don't even know how to handle it or find myself again