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I was with this guy for over two years. I loved him and everything was a fairytale and he made life seem so easy and carefree
We had similar interests (unless he was totally mirriroring me but I don’t think he was) and he wants to go to Med school, I wanted to go to some grad program for a health related profession but after our breakup I WITHDREW because I had SO little self esteem I didn’t believe I could.
Now I haven’t spoken to him in a year but i swear I am still affected by this bullshit, and I lost all of my goals and dreams. I was a really smart student in undergrad and had so many goals for furthering my education, now that I haven’t I feel like a failure.
Also he would pretty much tel me if I didn’t have more degrees I wouldn’t be trusted by people. That I needed all these degrees to have “value” in the world and so now that I just lost my job and knowing he just graduated from Johns Hopkins makes me feel like shit.
:( any advice or relatable stories welcomed ❤️😪
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