I'm having his child and I'm seven months pregnant. I don't know if I should tell him when the baby is born or not because he's already upset he can't go to doctor's appointments with me. I'm scared he's going to track me down and show up at the hospital without notice and I really don't want to see him or have him hold my baby since he's a drug addict and smells like straight smoke and drugs.

I also need to get child support from him and I don't want to have to be in his company more than I have to. He already told me he won't give me any support with the child he wanted because I am rude, after telling me "fuck you bitch" on the phone. I am worried about my child and him being in a proximity to each other where he will use the status of father to make me feel guilty for everything.

He definitely won't get custody because his house is like a storage unit, nasty, people constantly in and out and drugs all the time.