When we started dating I gave her everything she could've ever asked for, not monetarily because I ain't got the cash like that, but everything she wanted and more. A lot of times while forgetting about me and those I care about. After I saw the narc tendencies come out since we had some major fights and almost ended it, I've not been the same person. I can't find it in me to give what I did at one time. Or show the emotion I did or even look to next week for plans as I did before. Does anyone else experience these feelings like you're afraid to do what you may have once done for them? Afraid that if you do, it will allow them back in to continue what they were doing before ?