Mine was vegan, socialist, an ally to all etc etc. I think it's a big reason why I didn't see the manipulation/abuse sooner because I thought he couldn't possibly be like that because he was so 'concerned' about doing the right thing. I wonder if there are many other narcs like this? I don't think he was just acting in a calculated way to deceive people, I think he really thought of himself as that kind of person. But maybe because it was his vision of what a 'good' person is and he needs to prove to himself and others that he's great, better than others etc. The most ethical and woke person ever. I doubt he ever did something good without telling anyone else about it.

Thoughts?