Hi to all,
I've met someone this year. It all became overwhelmingly intense in no time. I was instantly lured in by a traumatic background story and a story about an abusive ex (the reason why the wanted to start a new life). We met up quickly and I experienced something that I've never experienced ever before. It all went intimate immediately too. I felt like high on drugs. It was too good to be true. I was love-bombed heavily and almost 24/7 (via text, calls, video chats, photos... My phone was flooded with selfies, private videos, etc.). Future plans were discussed... It was the most intense thing that I've ever experienced.

Then it all stopped. Suddenly it all switched to pretty much nothing and partly even mean (rather subtle) remarks. Suddenly, after everything, they told me they couldn't do LDR at the moment, but that we would stay "minimum friends"... Of course, my needs and wishes were of no interest. I just had to live with it. To make a long story short, I found out that they actually had been with someone else pretty much the whole time. Needless to say, my world was really shattered into pieces that day. Even though it has all just been going on for not longer than 6 months in total (from love bombing to devaluation). When I tried to confront them, I got 5 weeks of silent treatment and no answers... After a pointless last call that ended quickly as soon as I tried to address my feelings („Sorry, I can´t talk, talk to you later, but I appreciate you as a friend") I stopped reaching out. Since then silence again.

Now my actual question is how probable would it be that they would hoover me? As it was just a short long-distance-"situationship“ (or whatever this was at all). Somehow I can´t imagine them trying to come back at all.

Thanks for any replies!