I just got out of a relationship they ended it. But I wanted other peoples thoughts on the situation because I’m feeling distraught. My relationship wasn’t long it was almost going to be 2 months but it ended. I met him on this site called alt dating scene for reference I am goth. We met on there and then I found out he was the president of the emo/alt club at my school I didn’t join the club because of them specifically, but I thought it was the perfect for me. Overtime me and him got closer we had my first kiss and cuddled the first time we hanged out. After that I really developed feelings for him. In the beginning he put a lot of effort into our friendship he would see me alot was very attentive through text. We talked about what we both wanted but we wanted something exclusive and long term

But I wanted to wait awhile before we dated because I wanted to get to know him more. When I told him I was ready to date I remember him saying why he wanted to date me and I listed these positive qualities he said “there are other people that like that” I feel some anxiety and uncomfortable about what he said, it made me feel like they weren’t serious about wanting to date at all, but the relationship did happen.

When we dated I had alot if anxiety. Things felt Very different I felt like he didn’t make much effort as he did when we were friends. He had stopped asking to call.

He wouldn’t interact with me at much at the club or even acknowledge my existence . Yet when we were friends he would talk to me at the club.

I remember when I asked to come along to the Halloween party. He asked if my one friend was coming and asked if I wanted to come to another event because Of the overstimulation and achol and how they wouldn’t look Over me as much, but when we were at the party things were fine and we were all together. I have a feeling he didn’t want me to come and was avoiding me.

I was In the hospital I got my gallbladder removed he didn’t visit me when I was in the hospital but he said he would once I get out and he never did. I found out recently he was active on a dating when I was recovering from surgery.

My ex also when we were dating had sent me an article about male BPD and vunerable narcissist. This is my story thank you