My ex narc brought his new girlfriend to my doorstep lastnight when he dropped my son off.

Back story: we dated for 5 years and now have a 6 year old. He cheated, used me for free housing for two years, stole from me and my business and so much more.

We moved out a year ago but had still been seeing each other on and off. We’d just spent the day as a “Family” the weekend before my son started telling me about a new friend and her kids.

He downplayed it and gaslit me to try and convince me she was only a friend but of course I knew better. The night I asked him about it was the night he decided to tell me he stopped having feelings when I “left him homeless”

So anyway I made the mistake of crying and telling him I still loved him.. he uses that against me anytime I have a problem with the care of our child.

At first he started out picking my son up in her car, then started dropping him off with her and her kids in the car and now I open the door and she’s standing right there. I’ve been seeing someone so it didn’t effect me the way I thought it would but it’s still sick to think he’s doing that specifically because he knew how strongly I felt about not wanting to meet her. This women has bought my son clothes shoes, school supplies, a bed for her house and a freakin hover board. My ex’s wardrobe has changed a bit so I know she’s buying him clothes too.

I’ve been so depressed to the point that I haven’t really been able to eat, I’ve gotten back in the gym and am starting to see results so I’m trying really hard to focus on that but it’s so freakin hard having to be forced to deal with someone like him. I hate him. I have nothing against the new girl because I know what she’s about to go through but at the same time I just want them to stay in their corner of the world and I stay in mine. I don’t get why he feels the need to overly include her the 2 times I have to see him a month.