NEX dumped me 6 years ago once he got tired of me and used me up. We've spoken twice since then - once at a club where he admitted to being on drugs, and asked to kiss me, and then getting coffee a few weeks after that. When I told him about the kiss attempt, he got angry at me and insisted that didn't happen...he has a shit memory, and I was sober at the time, so I felt confident in standing by my version of events.

Anyway...on Saturday, fresh off of a painful breakup, I went out to a club with some friends to distract myself. NEX was there, and he approached our group to try to talk to me. I just told him "go away" in a a firm voice, over and over again, until he left. The next morning I woke up and saw he'd Venmo'd me $500 while we were at the club. Just with the message: "Owed."

I burst into tears because it felt so gross...I'd given him money and paid for things when we were together, money I didn't have, and now 6 years later he's trying to worm his way back into my life.

I feel like this shouldn't have affected me so much, but it sent me deeper into the depression pit while also making me anxious and hyperaware of any words that look like his name.

Has anyone had a NEX pull this kind of thing? What are they trying to accomplish here?