The past two fathers days my nex has either ruined or attempted to ruin the day. The first year was the day that the final discard happened when she initiated an argument where she flew into a rage because I took her off of all the finances and removed shared accounts. She had her cousins record me as she was saying and doing very disrespectful things to me as a way to get me to react badly and get arrested. I'm glad I was composed enough to let it go, walk away, and go "home".

This past fathers day she told me she met someone else and she had been seeing him for a while and didn't want to burden the kids. Even though I had the kids that whole weekend and she told me on Sunday, just hours before I was supposed to drop them back off to her.

This fathers day I'm suspecting she is going to tell me that she is getting married in October. I've known since January through my son's medical report and she doesn't know that I know.

Do any of your nex's have certain days of the year that they try to ruin and what do they do to you on those days?