While in a convo about our relationship which was about 6 months in or so...she "playfully" says "Until I start acting like I usually act..." With this smirk I'll never forget. I asked her what she said and she says "nothing" I insist she said something and she says "nothing, I was just playing" and quicky changes the subject. Sadly, I didn't jump ship then, but yep she started the self sabotaging and passive agressive behavior. She even admitted to being passive agressive but couldn't explain why she was or why she continued to be that way. So, while acknowledging it she never stopped. Like much of the bad behavior in the relationship. It got to a point she gaslit me saying she felt she was walking on eggshells in the relationship and trying to be who I wanted was draining. Mind you, I only was asking for common courtesy and respect. I mean come on if you said you were gonna do something...do it! All the drama stemmed from me not just accepting bad behavior. She viewed me as expendable almost when she really wasn't a prize but for some reason I was head over hills.

I'm sure someone can relate and share. I'm NC and ignoring any hoovers but can't help think about some of the absolute nonsense this person wanted to make no big deal. Good riddance!