A few weeks ago I posted that NXH sent me an email demanding a bunch of ridiculous things that were not required by our divorce agreement or state statutes. They also made some false accusations. I replied with only the info I had to and did a Grey rock from there.

Lo and behold, NXH asked to see our children for the weekend (for the first time since March). He told them he’s divorcing NW. When he dropped the kids back at my house, he told me she was the one who sent the email, she had been controlling his texts and responses, basically everything was her doing and he was an innocent bystander.

Bull shit. The man is an adult. It’s the classic narc story of “bad things happen to me for absolutely no reason”. Nothing is ever his fault.

I listened politely and wished him luck in his dealings with her. Inside I was screaming. I’m beyond pissed that our children (and her children) have to go through this AGAIN. It’s unfair they have to feel the uncertainty, the pain, the loss AGAIN because the adults in their lives are assholes.