(Not sure if that’s the right flair.) Quick recap: XH’s new wife called my employer to get personal details about me and other things that were not her business. I left a message for my attorney today, but did not say anything to XH or NW. No texts, no phone calls.

This afternoon XH was texting me about our daughter’s school work. No mention of anything else by him or me. In the middle of our conversation, I get this text from NW: “MYNAME - I blocked your number so you can’t contact me. You’re not welcome at or near our house. Your behavior is abysmal, and you are continually putting your children in unsafe situations. I can’t in good conscience be a proxy to your shitshow anymore.”

Ummm...okay, I guess? Meanwhile XH said he would put something our daughter needed in his mailbox so I could get it. I politely replied “NW just told me I’m not allowed at or near your house so I won’t be doing that.”

I’m so very confused. I hope they enjoy each other.