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Nanny Share: what questions to ask other family to determine compatibility?
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I’m building a nanny share family questionnaire that will be freely available for any family to use. But I’m having trouble nailing down parenting style questions, especially for children under 18 months. For toddlers, what would you ask the other family besides spanking, time-outs, and screen time?

For this first low-fidelity version, two families swap responses and discuss to determine compatibility. I eventually want to build some tech around it to spit out a report with a compatibility percentage, strengths, and weaknesses to watch out for. This report should also help the nanny’s expectations when they interview.

Here’s the form if you want to see what I’ve got so far: https://forms.gle/aDa8ggjsSeadxDCT6

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That makes sense. I was thinking more along the lines of values in a parenting context, like if both families are okay with diverse gender expression, answering kids’ big life questions, etc., but I see you’re trying to align parenting styles, not personal values.

I always ask “how would you describe your family culture? What are your most important values for your family?” I prefer to work for liberal non-Christian families and I find those questions often include/insinuate political/religious beliefs without directly asking.

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