MB here just wanted to share some of my heavy sadness on losing our nanny so you know how much you all mean to us.

Our nanny (24f) is struggling badly with her mental health. As of late it’s been particularly bad and she’s decided to step away and check into a facility where she can receive in-patient treatment. And as a family we wholeheartedly support this decision and want what’s best for her. I truly want her to feel better and take care of herself, so I know this is for the best.

On the other hand, I am absolutely heartbroken. I have watched her these past years with our children (M2 & M4) and I cannot help but feel we are losing a cherished family member. I’ve cried so much thinking of my little one and how much he has learned from her, how hard she’s worked and how much she’s taught him, and the endless effort she’s put into soothing my eldest in a tantrum. I’m so grateful but so very sad that they’ll have a hole in their heart when she leaves.

I know that this is a job, and like any job there are many drawbacks and challenges that come with it. Probably more as you’re working with little ones and in someone’s home that is not your own. But I hope you all know how much you impact us, and how much it means to the kids and to us as parents to have you with us, for however long. Sometimes it probably gets lost in the shuffle, but if you’re feeling down about what you do, please know that there is nothing in this world I am more grateful for than the love given to my children from others. This work is so valuable and so hard. So if your MB/DB forget to tell you - there is no more important work in the world.

Thank you all for being such a bright light to so many kids and families alike. I know I couldn’t go to work and function without knowing my kids are loved and cared for like they have been, and that means everything. And to all those struggling with mental health,caregiving is incredibly hard work and your mental health matters.

Sending all the love.