I’m looking for someone to help me escape the daily grind and banality of life. I have the usual story — got married young, didn’t have many experiences beforehand, and am a bit neglected at home. I’m not looking for sympathy; just giving some context for my post.

Maybe you’re feeling unappreciated or need something new and exciting to brighten up your day. Let’s experience that new relationship energy, the sexual tension, playful banter that comes with getting to know someone new. I want to make sure all of your needs (both mental and physical) are taken care of. I want to bring a smile to your face and get your heart racing when you see a new message come in. I want you to feel relief and exhilaration when we meet in person and I gently kiss your neck, working your sore shoulders, and beyond…

I believe that a mental connection is the foundation for good chemistry, so you should be okay with getting to know each other first.

I am mid 30s, white, brown hair and eyes, average height with a dad bod. I’m well educated and enjoy some of the finer things in life but I can also appreciate things that are rough around the edge. Personality wise, I’m somewhat of a nerd and work in the tech field. I enjoy sarcastic humor. It takes time for me to build up trust but once I do, I’m quite open and outgoing. I live in the suburbs and work in Manhattan.

Requirements for you… A couple of harsh truths first — I wouldn’t physically be into someone obese or who does drugs / is an alcoholic. Be open to my situation. Ideally you’re in a similar scenario (married or with a boyfriend) or understanding that my time is limited. Due to my situation I won’t be able to meet that often but be willing to actually meet if we decide it’s a mutual fit.

Have a great day and hope to hear from you!