I'm a dom. For me, a good scene is all about you. Now, that doesn't mean I'll be nice.

I've got my own kinks, but the core thread that ties them together—the foundational taboo I like to use and bend and break--is your pleasure. Women's pleasure, and subs' pleasure, and their kinks... Getting you to come out of your shell, admit what you really want, and then doing that with you, is exciting. If you're shy, don't worry—I'll get in your head, I'll figure you out, I'll make you talk.

Now, your kinks might be about me. That's nice. I'll still take that make it about you. I'll make you beg for what you want. I might tease you, too. If you want my cock, I might make you work for it, and I might deny it to you entirely—I can be patient, I can control myself as easily as I can control you. The decision I make will always be rooted in you, and what I think you need.

Maybe your kinks have nothing to do with me. Maybe you want pain. Maybe you want to be humiliated. Maybe you want somebody to control your orgasms while holding a vibrator against your clit. Again, I will figure out exactly what you need, and I'll hold you to it. I have no need to make it about me.

I do have some limits—I'm not into blood, scat, pee, or incest (don't call me daddy, I go by sir), and I have a few safety standards, like any good dom.

So tell me about yourself. Tell me the fantasy you want me to fulfill, or just give me an inkling I can use to set a scene. I'm available on reddit chat, in reddit messages, and on Matrix / Element: @separateamoeba:matrix.org.

32 / M / Dom. NYC/LI. Happy to play online a bit while we get to know each other. Open to long-term and short-term dynamics. I'm Jewish, and if you are too, that would be a plus for me.