I love lingerie, and own my fair share of it. I'd love to meet someone as excited to see me in it and get me out of it as I am to put it on. It's a huge bummer to put on lingerie for someone who could care less. Let's have lingerie shopping be the foreplay. Imagine my soft curves in the lingerie and how you're going to get me out of it so you can get your mouth and fingers on me. Then maybe it leads to some cozy movie hangs where your hand ends up down my pants. While I'm not looking for a relationship, I'm looking for more intimacy then anonymous and super casual.

Message me and tell me about you, I'm looking for chemistry. Things in common. The ability to hold a conversation. Include either a description of how you look or a photo. Please do your best to catch my attention! I'm begging you don't just say hey. A well thought out message will get you so much further. Please don't send me your dick before anything else. I'll know you dont understand the assignment.

More about you, be over the age of 26. This is a hard limit for me because of my age. If I see you're 18 or 20 I won't respond. Please live in Queens, or Brooklyn. I'm trying to find a casual dating situation that I'll actually be able to see and not have to wait and plan because of distance. Be a pleaser. If you're invested in my pleasure you're going to a have a good time.

Now about me. I'm 35, I write about sex, toys, pleasure and body confidence for a living. That also means I have many many sex toys and would love to use them together. I'm into folks of all genders but I'm not submissive at all. This means if your message includes all the ways you want to dominate me, you won't be hearing back.

I'm curvy and busty and covered in tattoos. I'm also non-monogamous but currently its complicated, so I'm looking for uncomplicated and fun. No, I'm not cheating and yes I get tested for STIs and Covid regularly. Also vaxed and boosted and only interested in those with similar safety precautions.