To my potential cuddle buddy,

It's cold and dreary out and all I can think of is sharing some soup, lighting a candle and letting the rain rap the rafter and windows to hum us to slumber.

I'm currently on business in NYC tonight looking for my future jerpack to get us to another plane of closeness. All I desire is your warm tender embrace and in exchange I'll bring in all the Fall cheer we've both been lacking this past week.

I've been involved on and off in the BDSM world since I was 20, starting with munches in NJ and dungeon clubs in NYC. The first person I ever met in the scene was a sadist with decades of experience who gave me a hands-on introudction to impact play. On my order of what I'm knowledgable on the most I'd say it goes like this; Impact Play, sensory deprivation, orgasm denial, wax play, and rope. Typically, I've stuck with things that I can actively do in the bedroom and things that correlate to my personality. I work best when I can really connect with someone and am not shy of exhibitionism.

Segwaying to my more vanilla interests I'm an avid traveler who has lived in London and the US. I recently got back from an 14 day trip to Mexico to the state of Michoacan to see the Monarch Reserve in December aswell as skiing in Spain/Andorra to celebrate Las Fallas in March. In the past, I've been on a mission trip to Guatemala and have had several road trips, lengthiest being a Southern trip to the Grand Canyon and back. I've grown my cookbook from all the places I've been so have an open mind as well as appetite.  

On a personal note, I often fill my time with fashion design, figure drawing, poetry, and hiking (with hikes spanning Vancouver, Europe, and Central America). I'm building up my figure drawing portfolio slowly as I improve and I definitely wouldn't mind new subjects. Poetry has also been a huge inspiration for me. I usually listen to my Spotify playlist as it's littered with jazz, indie, and early ska. I also was a HUGE gamer and can talk indepth about it despite not having played in 3 years.  

Basically pouring my kinky big "heart" into this I do have a few hard boundaries such as knifeplay, anything involving children, diapers, blood, and scat. I do consider myself quite well rounded and I'd gladly answer questions.

About my appearance:

• 5'9", 6'5" in confidence because I love boots.
• Shaved head, no guard
• Deep glacier blue eyes
• Attractive, calm, and stern voice.
• Average Build with broad shoulders, (155 lbs)
• Clean and trim beard
• I'm DDF (Tested 5/5/2022, Vaccinated & Boosted w/Pfizer

What I look for:

• 20-34 is ideal. (Not a hard rule, no one under-aged)   
• Active in both body and mind
• I workout regularly and look for the same.
• Preference for slim thick or petite
• Open to all colors.
• I appreciate someone who likes lingerie.

Feel free to message me in chat if this vibes with you.

Best, with great affection,

John