So I like this girl - or I thought. I met this girl at a bar in SoHo, and we really hit it off. I like to keep things genuine and real when I talk to women, and hence we kinda vibed. Nothing cheesy, actual common things to talk about.
I visited her again somewhere near Harlem, and we had a great time. It was early, so I thought to introduce her to my friends. She wanted to meet, but I guess the cold got to her, and she changed her plan midway - no problem I get it.
She texted me to meet her tonight, and I told her that I’ll be at the same SoHo bar. She was around 4.5 hours late. I really wanted my friends to see this woman because I “thought” she was cool. But I don’t know now. I felt real bad to keep my friends waiting. One thing I have learned in NYC, is that you gotta respect time - especially peoples time.
She was with some people, I get that too. But my post is about should I really bother to text her back saying something like - “… you missed me but I was there”.
Some part of me wants her to know that is not cool, because I really thought she knew better. But I don’t know.
Can someone help?
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