Hello, I'm a 28 year old dom in NYC looking for a submissive interested in a long-term relationship. To start things off, here's a few facts about myself:

• Physically: I'm white, 150lbs, 5'9", and I have medium length brown hair with a face that is normally clean shaven. Slim build with a fair amount of muscle.
• I don't smoke, drink, gamble, or do any drugs aside from my daily dose of caffeine. I consider myself a fairly responsible person and don't have any plans on changing that.
• I'm clean. I do my laundry, wash my dishes, keep up my appearance, and so on.
• I'm STD free and generally in good health.
• I am strictly monogamous and looking for someone who is the same way. I've been hurt in the past by someone who was unfaithful and I'm not interested in a repeat of that.
• I don't have any interest in starting a family or having kids in the long-term. I plan on getting a vasectomy in the near future.

My life story in a nutshell: was a bit of an anti-authoritarian way back in high-school. I bought into the whole "you don't need school, only skills" mantra and some of my role models reflected that. I was a huge computer nerd but I barely graduated because I hated school for various reasons even though I was fairly bright. Spent a few years at a random college because I still had hopes of doing something with all that knowledge but I lacked the direction I needed. I ended up dropping out and working fast food for a few years until I completely rethought my goals and what I wanted out of life. I currently live on my own with a couple of roommates and I'm back in school for a completely unrelated degree with a very different mindset and a clear objective.

Relationship-wise, I am not looking for my equal as much as I'm looking for someone to take care of who can make me happy. I genuinely enjoy spending time with my person and doing relationship-things. I would love to go out and do things in the city, or just call each other and watch movies, shows, and whatever else. Ideally our relationship would be long-term. Once again I don't have any plans on starting a family but I would like to have a woman to call my own. At some point in the future I would like us to move in together. I don't have many expectations from my potential partner but realistically I will be spending a decent amount of time on my career so it would be best if you have some way to keep yourself occupied either through employment or a hobby.

Sexually, I am looking for someone that is very submissive and is interested in having a certain type of dynamic in our relationship. I have a dominant side that I am pretty unapologetic about and I really enjoy giving direction. To give you an idea of some of my top kinks: cnc, free use, and tpe. With that said your emotional well-being always takes priority, but I would hope that there's a part of your brain that enjoys being used. I guess this is a discussion for another day.

Anyway, if any of this interests you and you would like to get to know each other better or if you have any questions, send me a DM. I'm open to many things so don't hesitate to reach out :)