I donât know what to call this post. Itâs def not a hookup post (pls), but I want some actual advice.
I am not from this country. I came here for studies, and I devoted my whole years to getting good at what I was learning and consequently got myself placed in a great company. All that hard work paid off yes! But at a cost.
I couldnât catch up with your culture here. Surrounded within library walls, I couldnât honestly got myself to open up to new people. Now when I actually want to do it, I fail miserably and I kinda feel let down you know. I go to bars, public events and trivia nights and for some reason it doesnât click.
Itâs probably because of the communication gap. My guys are so fucking smooth when it comes to talking to people (or women lol), but somehow itâs an effort for me especially when the person in front of you canât understand half of what you are saying.
All the game, suave and ârizzâ goes to waste. A very big kick in the balls if you ask me.
Itâs a very big hit to your self confidence. I donât know if anyone felt this way. If someone has, pls tell me what should I do. I donât want to envy my friends, or allow factors of jealousy and insecurity kick in. It just sucks, and I know thatâs not who I am.
I might not be able to articulate what I am thinking right now, but I am just tired of keeping things to myself and not letting my friends know ( I canât let them know, for some reason, itâs not their fault I feel this way).
Help me out?
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