Hey r/nyr4r -

Hoping to find someone who's down to hook up from time to time (and maybe even be friends) as winter approaches. I'm 5'8, east asian, athletic/fit and work out a lot (i practically just work and work out lol) - here's me: https://imgur.com/a/EKKN3kh - been told i have nice broad shoulders and back and a nice butt lol; I'd like to think i'm relatively intelligent, ambitious, witty, easy-going, and fun to chat with and hang around. I'm of average attractiveness/more of a cute/young vibe, as well, if that is or isn't your thing. Lastly, I have met up with people off reddit before, for what it's worth as an endorsement for my sanity (or degeneracy, up to you lol).

I'm fairly busy and dating apps I have a love/hate relationship with; presently, it'd honestly be nice just to cut the chase and meet up with someone looking for something similar and to have fun from time to time. Bonus points if you blaze, though certainly not mandatory. I'm a pretty avid traveler (less so lately), having been to 35ish countries, like to read, watch good movies and tv, try new food places, debate about stupid shit, and generally hang out with friends. I suppose that's fairly generically true of a lot of typical NYC folks but hey - so it goes.

About you:

Most importantly it'd be great if we actually had some kind of good vibes together conversationally and in general, but otherwise, ideally you'd be 21-35, shorter than me, white/asian/latino, and also in reasonable shape. I don't really know where my body is on the scale of attractiveness because a ton of people in NYC are stupidly attractive, but I'm not expecting you to be a model or anything; that said, i'm not really into thick/chubby folks and prefer girls who are smaller than me. Obviously, you need to be clean and disease free, as am I, and also hopefully not looking to harvest my organs (or any essential ones, at least).

If this sounds interesting, send me a chat and ideally include some sort of picture of yourself, doesn't have to be your face and i certainly won't share mine until we get to know each other more - it's pretty hard to go off a "hi" or "hey". And i'd say this goes without saying, but apparently it does not: no, i am not interested in dudes or curious dudes or whatever else not-gay-arrangement-that-is-totally-gay. Just not for me lol, so please don't bother.