My favorite thing is to chat with someone and really spend time getting to know them. I especially love learning all about their contradictions, because that's what keeps things interesting.

Some of my contradictions:

• I consume animal products and wear leather shoes, but I spend extra money on plastic-free goods.
• I know almost all of the words to the entire Sgt. Pepper album, but I prefer my hip-hop to be in languages I can’t understand.
• I will always put my (and other people's) shopping carts back in the cart return no matter how far the walk is, but I often don't signal when changing lanes while driving and will aggressively merge into an exit lanes only 500 feet before the exit.
• I’m sex positive, SoloPoly, with some not-so-vanilla kinks, but I am very inexperienced (and still prefer some level of decorum when first messaging, please 😏).
• I'm obsessed with YA dystopian novels, but I have a decent-sized collection of non-fiction books about football (aka soccer, and yes I do call it football).
• I’m short and fat and an amateur foodie, but I love being active — running (badly, lol), hiking, ice skating, rowing, some lifting.
• I prefer to wear boots, hoodies, sneakers, athleisure, and rock an undercut, but I'm an Ulta/Sephora addict and have a shocking nail polish collection.
• I have an engineering background, but I've sold my own art and I hang it up around my house.
• I consider myself a nerd (HP, LOTR, watch linguistics videos on YT, play quiz games on Sporcle, full of random facts, wear glasses 99.95% of the time) but I don't game or watch much anime.
• I'm a homebody, but get cabin fever easily and my passport has a respectable number of stamps.

I’m looking to chat and build a genuine connection. Bring your strongest conversation game! I like open and honest conversations with good flow where we can talk about anything and everything — silly, deep, philosophical, sexy, personal, controversial. No topics are off limits for me. Maybe we become friends. Maybe we become more. Open to seeing where it goes. I only ask that you be close by, over the age of 26, and open to the possibility of meeting IRL if it goes that way. So message me with one of your personal contradictions and let’s chat. 😊