Hey, I'm Aaron!

I am a transgender male. I am pre-op (so sadly I still have my chest) and I am not on hormones at the moment. (I was on hormones before and will be getting back on them.) I am 5'9. I am 170 lbs (so on the heavier side these days). I do not smoke, drink, or do any sort of drugs.

I'm a recent (sorta) college grad who is still trying to figure out what I want to be. So hopefully you're someone who is okay with a partner who is still figuring their life out. I am introverted and tend not to get out much. My friends have always had to drag me places and the experiences do turn out to be great.

As shy as I am, I think I'm a pretty decent conversationalist.

To be honest- I am not sure what I am looking for exactly. I do know I prefer older men (30 ). I can, however, assure you that I am not out for anyones money/pockets. I just know I've never had a chance to seriously date anyone and through my various no strings attached situationships, I realized I was into older men. After catching feelings for a really nice fella, who did not want a relationship, I relaized I was not made for casual hookups and the fwb lifestyle.

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I want to settle down. Have the happily ever after. But even if this is just for a short time, I want to have lived a bit more.

I'm seeking someone patient, kind, gentle, and who can be a great mentor- especially in the bedroom.

I'm kind. I tend to love hard. And I think I'm pretty funny. I'm Gen Z, so texting happens to be my main form of communication. However, older friends of mine have made me more open to having actual phone calls these days. And I must say, I quite enjoy hearing voices from time to time, lol.

There's lots of things I've never done/tried. There's so many places I haven't been. I'm looking for someone to get me out of my shell. I went to Dairy Queen for the first time ever a month ago! I had "real" ice cream!

I tend to talk a lot and love hearing about people's day.

I enjoy learning in my day to day to day life. I also ask a lot of questions. So be prepared for that.

If by any chance any of this catches your eye, I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

P.s. Maybe we can bond over cooking. I literally do not know how to. There's a broken toaster out there and burned tea kettle that will attest to that. Kitchens and I tend not to get along. 😅😅