Hey there. Thanks for checking this out and please excuse what’s certain to be a jumble of thoughts below.

Short version: I’m 27, relatively average in a lot of ways, live in Manhattan, and would love to find a bi or bi curious couple that’s laid back, interesting, and communicative to date, explore, or just hang out with.

Long version: Lately I’ve realized I’m pan. Full stop. I used to be only mostly straight, then probably in denial, then maybe bi, and then a slow and gradual slide towards acceptance. That said, I don’t have any experience with masculine presenting folks or dicks beyond my own. So I am very keen to explore that. I’ve always been kinky and unjealous, but I really would like to find a laid back, welcoming couple to explore and enjoy time with. People who are actually interested in being friends and hanging out: grabbing dinner, seeing shows, playing cards. But also into getting naked together and having fun.

About me: I’m 27, 5’11”, chubby, brown hair, green eyes, and some body hair. I’m a software engineer, live a pretty comfy life, and have been on a major self improvement and “break it down to build it back up” kick over the past 6-12 months after a serious relationship fell apart.

About you: Ideally I am younger (either minimally or substantially) than the woman. Everything else is pretty much up for grabs. Even if you’re single (guy, gal, or anything in between or orthogonal) I’d still be interested in hearing from you if you fit my mental profile outlined above. The only major dealbreaker is hygiene. Please be clean and relatively well kept. Brush yer dam teef, etc. Also drama free, hard drug free, and disease free. I am and while I’m open to discussions on protection down the road, testing and care to stay that way are essential to me.

I’m sure I’m missing something and I’m sure I’ve made this a doozy to follow but if you’re at all with me let me know! I’d love to hear from you, even just as purely platonic likeminded acquaintances.