Thank you for choosing to visit and browse /r/NYr4r . We've revamped the rules, sidebar, and filters for NYr4r. We'll also be bringing in some of the auto defenses the other r4rs use as well to help control spam even further.

The sidebar and rules page isn't always visible in all browsers; use https://old.reddit.com/r/NYr4r if so

Primary Rules to be Emphasized (The rest can be found HERE)

Rule 1

This subreddit is 18 . If you are under eighteen do not post, comment, or PM OPs. This rule is required of us by the admins for liability reasons. Lying about your age if you’re under 18 will result in a permanent ban.

Rule 2

Prostitution, Exchanges for money, or goods, are strictly prohibited. This includes, and is not limited to, any of the "sugar" lifestyle ads, massages, OF, drugs, cam performances, etc. If you are doing something in exchange for something else, it will most likely fall in this rule. Also note that if your activity feed contains items of this nature, you'll need to use a different account to post on r/NYr4r to avoid any potential conflicts of interest or confusion about the nature of your posting

Rule 3

Accounts must have sufficient karma and be sufficiently old to participate. (The specific age and karma requirements change from time to time in response to scammer campaigns. Do NOT modmail to ask what the current requirements are.) Post titles must include the author's true, exact age at the time of posting.

Rule 4

No Third-party platforms including Snapchat, phone numbers, email addresses, or other platforms may be shared in public. No surveys, forms, or other information-harvesting activities. We recommend against sharing this information in public, as it will be much more difficult to connect scammers/catfish/etc. to their Reddit accounts when communicating via non-Reddit platforms. Scammers frequently try to move off platform to Snapchat as soon as possible on NYr4r.

The titles of submissions must be properly formatted or they will be deleted. The format for post titles is:

<age> [<r4r>] <your location/time zone> - <title>

Examples:

21 [M4F] #Manhattan - Looking for a friend

26 [F4R] #Bronx - I want a gamer buddy and somebody to chat with

28 [MtF4F] #SuffolkCountyLI - brighten up my work trip

30/29 [FM4FM] #Albany - Married couple looking for roleplay with another married couple.

Please help us out. If you see a posting that violates the subreddit's rules, please report it. If you need to provide more information, send us a modmail. Please don't engage other posters in the subreddit. If someone does something (or requests something) you think is harmful or illegal, send us a modmail with the content you are reporting.