Howdy! I'm just gonna get straight into it:
I'm looking for anything tbh, but would love to go into things with the idea that whatever dynamic we start with would have the potential to grow. I'm down for something that'd be strictly a fling, or strictly fyb and nothing more, but I'd for sure be interested in a LTR, if that's something I can find here lol.
Basically, I want some dopamine/oxytocin, and I'd really like to connect with someone. I have my own place and would be down to host, AND there's a sign-in at the front desk too, so even if I were an axe murderer, this wouldn't be the way to do it? Idfk what to say on that end, but I completely understand online stranger-danger, and I care about lot about consent and safety and comfort and all that when posting in these kinds of places 🫡
I do have some kinkier things at my place, but I would not pressure you into engaging with them if that's not your thing. Willing to mentor and teach, but not to push. And if you want to hang out aside from just the sex side of things, I can grab something to cook up for dinner, I have what I think is a pretty sweet movie setup with a projector and everything in my apartment, and I have a decent stash games. I love games.
And uhhhhh I'd be looking for someone who I'm attracted to. For me that means you're able to communicate well, you're close to my age (sub-35 years old), and as shallow as it sounds, you're someone I'm physically attracted to. My type is typically on the smaller side, but if you'd be willing to send over a description at least, I'd do my best to use my imagination and go from there lol. I'm not too picky I don't think, I just know my usual preferences.
For myself, I'm 5'9", lean at ~140 lbs, brown hair, brown eyes, with a face that has an attractive floor. I work on my body, but I'm not obsessive about it, so I'd say that I'm definitely fit, but not ripped.
And personality-wise, I value being clever and creative, but I can also be pretty dumb at times. Hopefully in an endearing way. People often say that I have golden retriever energy, and I do have ADHD, so anything involving dopamine is a huge draw for me. I like to be engaged in what I'm doing, and I gravitate towards things that are out of the ordinary. Granted, I still enjoy a simple walk through Central Park with a latte, but you better believe that I'm also the kind of person to order the weirdest item on a menu just to see what it's like.
If you have any questions, I encourage you to ask away, and I'll do my best to answer whatever you got for me! Cheers, yall.
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