I’m neither a “slave” nor a “sissy”. I’ve never been a “sub”. But sometimes I find it thrilling to be submissive, to give up control, to be told what to do, to serve, to worship, to please someone else. I’m looking for a woman — inexperienced and curious or experienced and knowledgeable — who finds it thrilling (or at least a turn on, pleasurable) to be on the other side.

If you do, here some of the things I’d enjoy engaging in with you:

- Voice/video chat: instructions, guidance, commands. You find it hot to listen to me follow your lead, to hear me gasp in pleasure and pain, as I challenge myself. You must be willing to verify.
- Pegging training: you training me to bend over for you, to spread myself, to take a finger, two fingers, a plug, a dildo — how much will you make me beg you for it? (I’m a newbie!)
- Invention, creativity: I want someone who can surprise me, help me push myself, get me to do things that please her, things I didn’t know I might enjoy — or that I’ll enjoy because she is pleased and possibly pleasured by my obedience
- Some things I’m into: pussy and ass worship, facesitting; massage and oral service, pillow princesses, praise and body worship; pegging and ass play, duh; light spanking and impact play; some bondage, ropes, blindfolds, restraints; CFNM; edging, teasing, denial; maybe cum and piss play; definitely more gentle than extreme
- Some things I’m not into: extreme degradation and humiliation (only light); extreme pain (again, only light); incest, underage or race play; scat, blood, the usual; sorry no cock cages, extended orgasm denial, or heavy CBT

I don’t want to pay you. That’s fine if you’re someone who likes to be paid for such engagement — but that’s not for me. After we’ve been involved for a while and trust each other, I’d of course be happy to buy you gifts. But I won’t offer a “one time tribute” or “submission fee” to get started.

I'd like this to be via Skype. You can decide how much and when to reveal each other.

About me: I’m 43, 6’/185, athletic and fit. I do not have a “muscle bod” and I’m not “ripped” … but I am fit, fitter than your average “dad bod”. I am of Italian heritage, with dark features smooth olive skin. I will share pictures and assume, that at some point, you will too. If you don’t want to early on, I only ask for some sort of verification.

Other than that, I’m pretty open to suggestions. Come on, make me moan for you…

(I will cross-post in a few related subs)