So, a little personal post, im M25 pan, been and mainly dom with fems, and sub with guys, but sometimes if the mood is right, the opposite can happen.

But over the last few days, I've been in a weird headspace like when it comes to the bedroom, I've found it hard to get in the Dom zone with a fem partner. Like, idk I can't seem to get the mindset of being the one in control and in charge...so I decided to retake the bdsm test, and we'll it's all switched around and now I'm regretting doing that....

And advise would help as I have a sub and I don't want them to feel like they've done something wrong or aren't enough for me (me and them have discussed how I'm a switch in long details), bit I'm also scared I cant be there for them rn with whats going on with me