I posted to another sub a week ago talking about how my boyfriend was breaking the monogamy seal of our rather new relationship as I was writing the post, and I want to follow up with the details.

My partner, Antoni, matched with this one girl, we’ll call her Opal on a dating app and he had been talking to her for maybe three days. The day of, he was actually on a date with another girl from one of the apps, and they spend a good amount of hours together but they parted ways. I guess she was a virgin even though she was in her early 20s and it weirded Antoni out. Doesn’t seem like there was a spark, but maybe he made a new friend. While he was out with Opal, the girl who he was supposed to go out with the day before, let’s call her Ella, invited him out to meet at a bar with her friends.

Antoni decided to stay out and meet up with Ella around 11pm, but when he got to the bar, Ella’s friends left within like 10 minutes of Antoni getting there. Hint hint. They got drinks, left the bar and got drinks at a drugstore, walked around for a bit until they reached the beach. They talked for a few hours, until 2am.

I was talking with Antoni throughout the dates as I usually do, asking for updates, how he feels about them, etc. I was growing a little impatient as Toni was out with this girl Ella for a few hours with nothing really seeming to go on except talking and “getting to know each other.” Finally, I had enough and texted him, “I want to go to bed and I’m just waiting for something to happen. Tell her it’s late and ask her if she wants to go back to your place.” So Antoni wanting to appease me did just that, and of course Ella said yes. He tells me this on their walk to his place and I am elated she accepted the invitation. Now to find out if she is set on having sex with him. I tell him to ask and he does, he tells me she said she’s down as they get into her apartment. But they end up watching a 20 minute show first, and I’m pissed because that means I need to stay up longer. It’s his first time ever doing something like this while in a relationship and is asking if he should make a move. He puts his arm around her hoping more will come from it. I tell him just to wait since the show they’re watching isn’t the most fuckable show. Twenty minutes go by, then twenty five, then thirty, then finally…I get the text in the message: Sorry we were making out. Instantly worth the wait. We exchange more messages, tells me she’s on her period and I tell him to fuck the cramps away. He tells me he’s gonna leave to go fuck, and that’s when I wrote the post and sent it to him.

I asked him what happened. He said that he had laid her down on the couch to make out. After a bit, he got up to grab a condom and they made out more. She was a biter which he didn’t really care for, bit his tongue and lower lip and wanted him to bite her too. They both took off all their clothes so they were naked together. She was off the bed, lying down on her back and he fucked her standing in that position for the entire session. He grabbed and touched her fat tits and rubbed her clit as he fucked her. He had to reapply some lube because the condom got dry as they usually do, and he came after 20-30 minutes. She was very satisfied and told him he was really good.

Antoni wasn’t feeling that great after though, he ended up just missing me and my pussy even more after that (the last couple weeks, he’s been on the East coast of the US and I’ve been on the West coast, so 3 hour time difference). He said he felt he rushed it and was fucking just to fuck, which he was, and he could pull way better, which he definitely can (and later did, wink wink). He didn’t like how she was clingy and wanted to cuddle after and wished she had just gone home vs. staying in his bed. Seeing him in this energy, a more fuckboy kind of energy, was strangely arousing to me since he is usually not like that, especially not to me. He said the sex was just okay, and that she was chubby and mid and not in the attractive way. He ended up blocking her. He just wanted to be spontaneous and try something new, and I’m so proud of him for it. Let me know if you would like to see the text I sent him the morning after, but that’s it for Ella. Grateful to her for being our first, even if it wasn’t a strong start.