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I'm an open book, so ask away! Will answer questions about anything and everything, so long as it fits within the sub rules.
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I'm his first partner, but I was very clear from the start that I'm not monogamous and can't be in a relationship where I can't be free sexually. He was okay with that at the beginning, although a little hesitant since he wasn't sure what to expect, but after much exploring and communication with each other, we're both eager to open our relationship as much as possible!
I sure hope so! He's talking about getting a hotel room so we can have a train run on me. Hopefully we can make it a reality!
Nothing to apologize for, it's not a bad thing. I just don't think it's something my body can do. Some older folks say it's because I'm young and "haven't explored enough" and I guess time will tell, but I've done just about all the exploring I can and nothing has changed. I've just accepted that.
I love them! But I haven't received one from a stranger, so we'll see.
Thanks, I hope so too! I have lots of kinks I want to try with women, so as long as I find a kinky partner, I definitely will.
Raw in fantasy, in a condom in real life.
I'd like to start with 5 guys plus me, but eventually I'd like to experience much more than that.
Unfortunately we can't afford to travel, otherwise I'd love to travel all over the world and fuck someone in each country/city we visit.
I'm on the pill, but they aren't 100% guaranteed to prevent pregnancy. That's why I use a condom too. I wouldn't let another man breed me, I meant there are a couple men I might consider letting cum inside me, if my boyfriend allowed it.
It sounds hot, but I don't want another man to get me pregnant by accident. There are very few men I would actually consider it given my boyfriend was okay with it.
As a foursome or swap, yes, but I'm not interested in playing with a couple as a unicorn without my boyfriend involved.
Very many, but the main ones at the moment are body worship, public play, and watersports. I have lots of group play fantasies as well!
That sounds fun! I'd love to do something like that with updates and stories, but I'm not sure how I'd go about it.
Current body count is 4 and he's about 6.5" if you wanna get specific.
Body count and just the experience in general. I don't have anything in particular I'd like to get better at exactly, but having a wide range of partners would definitely help me improve all my skills. I'd say I'm more interested in trying new things rather than improving on things. I've never done a glory hole.
I remember! Yes, I have. He's so much more open minded and willing to explore now.
Thanks! Luckily my years being someone else were very early and now I can just enjoy myself.
It is definitely a big world. If you're ever in Toronto, maybe we can see if it goes anywhere.
That sounds like their future partners' problem! Haha, I don't want to give them a bad first time, do I?
Nope, anal is still off limits. Plus, I couldn't give someone else anal without also giving my boyfriend anal.
If I like him enough, absolutely! I probably wouldn't take someone's virginity if I didn't like them enough to give them it all. I do swallow!
Reddit and FetLife mainly, maybe at bars or clubs, but we're both introverts so our best bet is online.
Kissing doesn't interest me with anyone but my partner, but rough sex is fair game.
Definitely! I've taken two so far, more would be great!
Thanks! I definitely agree. Too many people aren't content with themselves and it hurts to know that. I definitely used to feel differently about myself.
I'm curious about it, just to say I have, but any bigger than him I probably wouldn't enjoy.
Thanks! I'm more comfy this way anyway.
No anal, no oral (on me), no foot play, that's the bulk of it. I'm pretty open minded with him, and I would be too with someone I'm willing to see regularly as a FWB.
I prefer less experienced guys, but experience isn't a deal breaker at all.
I don't have a FWB, but I would have some limits, mostly the same as I have for my boyfriend. I can't think of any requirements off the top of my head.
I meant I've tried fingers and toys on myself, but I've never actually done anal with a partner. It's a bit over 6", average girth.
Same to you! My DMs are always open.
Thanks! I love him more than anything. :)
Haha, I hope so! No orgasms from me tho, I'm a giver anyway!
At least a couple more! I've never done anal with another person, too painful.
I'm his first, but he isn't my first.
Lots of group play, if we get the opportunity. We're both very into sharing and tag teaming, so I think it'll be fun!
Unfortunately not, but we're expecting more opportunities to try it in the next year, so hopefully 2025 will be it for us!
I let him cum inside me. Obviously I'm not looking to get pregnant, but if it happens with him by accident, it's something we're okay with.
I'm not sure, I like to imagine I could take lots, but I won't actually know until I try.
This is all stuff I already plan on doing! Anyone who isn't willing to put in that effort isn't worth my time.
Yup! Children are too permanent, haha.
Definitely! Threesomes, foursomes, and gangbangs are all things we'd like to try very soon.
Both men and women, I'm bisexual but currently only have experience with men.
I'd love to try it, but I'm too tight to do it.
Yes, I'd love to be gangbanged or have a train run on me. I'm also really interested in threesomes, foursomes, and orgies. Really any and all group play I'd like to try at least once.
I really haven't had much for ONS yet, so I couldn't say for sure.
I'm open to it, but I'm definitely not looking for it, I don't think I'd enjoy it at all.
He's 6.5", not sure about girth, but he's of normal proportions, so do with that information what you will.
Probably average girth, slightly above average length.
That wouldn't work. I can't even fit a couple extra fingers with my partner in me.
I met my partner, so we cut contact.
Neither of us are really into sexting, so no, he doesn't. He is interested in seeing pictures/video and hearing about my experiences when I start sleeping with other men.
Sharing is that main one, he really wasn't sure how to feel about it. Now he's into (or curious about) more public play, male on male play, and degradation.
Absolutely! It's highly encouraged.
I've told him from the beginning of our relationship that I'm not monogamous and that we wouldn't be compatible if that wasn't something he was comfortable with, he told me he was totally new to all of it, but that he thinks he would like it. After a bit, he started to feel more "possessive" and didn't like the idea of being in an open relationship, we had lots of serious conversations and ultimately, if he wasn't comfortable with it, we'd have to split up. We gave it some time and for a while now he's been really into the open relationship. Due to certain circumstances, we haven't gotten to act on it yet, but it's a huge part of our sex life and we're so excited to explore the lifestyle together! He's interested in both in person and letting me play on my own, as well as all different kinds of group sex, such as threesomes or gangbangs. As I said, we have yet to explore it, but since starting to talk to some new people, I feel it won't be long before that changes!
I find it really exciting in a specific way, I can't really explain it, but I love the thrill.
I'd like to. I was talking to a much older man at one point, but we lost contact and nothing came of it. I'm not sure I'd go out of my way for it again, but I'm definitely not opposed to it happening naturally.
I've thought about both, but they aren't for me. Glory holes are way too high risk, I take STDs very seriously and that's not something I'm willing to compromise on. Plus, there aren't any near me that I'm aware of. Sex clubs are too expensive and social for me. I prefer less people at once. Maybe when I'm older, but right now, they aren't my thing.
Not really, although I'm very rarely interested in 30-50. Doesn't mean I wouldn't do it if I'm horny/attracted to them enough.
I wouldn't have a bull. But no, I wouldn't do it. I don't like kissing.
Lots of places. I can't think of many examples, but in a church is at the top of my list.
Not currently, we thought about trying OF, but we wouldn't have enough "followers" to make it worth it.
Pretty good! Not much new as of late, but lots of fantasy from both me and my partner, so we're looking to make some of it a reality.
With strangers, it really just depends on the person. There are some kinks I'd explore with a new partner, and some I wouldn't pursue outside of my relationship. Group play is an obvious one I'd try with strangers, some others would be sounding, degradation, body painting, sex under the influence, and public sex, to name a few.
I'm honestly not sure, he hasn't opened up about what made him change his mind.
I actually can't orgasm, so it's really not possible no matter how many dicks I get. Especially if they think my nipples are the key to changing that.
Current body count is only 4. I'm 5'4", not quite chubby or skinny, long brown hair, green eyes, glasses, white.
I shouldn't make myself uncomfortable to have him do something he doesn't care about anyway.
Definitely not, I don't want to catch anything or get pregnant, plus I don't like being eaten out.
Definitely! I take my sexual health extremely seriously, condoms are a must and potential partners must be tested.
Not since getting into a relationship. And I don't want to be bred.
I do! I'm a cuck on top of everything else, but it's definitely not my biggest kink.
All sorts of things! I have a huge in-depth kink list on my Fet profile if you're interested.
My user is @kenzie536 and I've met a couple guys off there, one of them being my current partner.
FetLife has been the most successful.
No, I'm not at all submissive and I don't really like older guys. My biggest kinks at the moment are public play, cuckqueaning, degradation, watersports, and group play.
My boyfriend likes it and I like pleasing him, if that counts. I am looking to find new guys.
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The goal I'd say would be getting into the hundreds, but realistically, I'd like to aim for 20 .