To answer a few of the most obvious ones:

• We've been involved in the lifestyle about 4 years, but we've never been possessive partners. This always sort of seemed like an option, but it took us a while to get things going.
• It's always been a pretty equal interest, and something we'd always sort of talked about as a possibility. It wasn't really my idea or his idea.
• We see others solo more often (and me more than him), but we see people together some as well. We've done MFM, couples swaps, and some larger play party type events.
• We're both comfortable with same sex play.
• Our kids are fully aware. We've always encouraged them to ask us anything they were curious about, and we've always basically been truthful with them. Other family members are basically aware as well.

We're happy answering questions addressed to either or us, or both.