The bulk of the action was from about 5pm to 7pm. I didn’t fuck her until after everyone left - but if you include me, then it was seven guys.

It definitely feels different - she was also really aroused / swollen by the end…you can even visually see it in some of the clips, between the beginning and the end her lips are just more puffy/swollen.

We had some really good reclaiming sex right afterwards, but no special aftercare otherwise. I hate to say a gangbang is old hat, but we've both being doing this long enough that there wasn't any big emotional impact for either of us. We both verbally checked in with each other a few times over this week to make sure we were good, but - we were. Personally, I've never had much in the way of jealousy or insecurity around seeing my romantic partners have sex with other guys, no matter how she reacts to it. That wiring just isn't there for me and never has been.

This was a good number. Last time she did 8, and that was her limit.

Not particularly. There are times I switch a little into that headspace, but it’s more of a compersion thing in regards to being awed by how hard she cums in these scenarios. I don’t feel humiliated or get off on that concept, though.

She thought she was good the next day but when we tried to have sex that night she was pretty sore once I was actually inside her. This week has been busy with real life stuff so we haven't had sex since then, so I don't have a firm answer, sorry. Probably based on previous experiences somewhere in the 2-4 day range.

We both started with group play in our early 20s (long before we met) and realized we liked it. I (male half) played around as a bull in my 20s and 30s. We met when we were in our mid 30s, about 7 years ago, and when we both realized we were into group play we started more in traditional swinging stuff but ended up doing more Hotwife play in time as I enjoy watching her and the vibe and it’s just easier to arrange. We do still play with couples, but less frequently than this kind of play.

Actually no, it was so swollen it felt tighter than normal (and she’s pretty tight normally).

It was a range from about 5” up to whatever the big guy was - I think he had to be 9” at least. Multiple creampies came from two of the guys, one was a guy we had been with before and the other was a first time.

We keep it separate - a few of our friends know what we do but we don’t play with anyone we know.

20s to late 50s

We ask if people have been recently tested but realistically it’s just a risk you have to be comfortable with if you’re playing like this. People can fake test results and/or have sex in between when they’re tested and an event. We focus on testing ourselves frequently and taking care of anything that comes up. We’re also on PreP and my wife had the HPV vaccine in her early 20s (and gets regular pap smears). Harm reduction but not elimination.

The vast majority were from Reddit posts, people who either reached out or replied to an ad. One guy we met on SLS and had played with before in a foursome with his wife.

We are adrenaline junkies to some degree. We do what we can to minimize our risks, but we don’t try to eliminate them. Honestly I’m skeptical of the utility of asking first STI test with something like this because 1) guys can easily fake them and 2) they’re a snapshot in time - and someone who is willing to show up for a bareback gangbang is by definition a risk taker who could very have two or three sex partners in the day it takes for the test results to come back 🤷‍♂️.

Her preference is around 7” and Coke can thick. I’m about 6.25” and Red Bull can thick 🤣. Biggest was probably the guy at this gangbang, he was around 9” I’d guess.

Not particularly fast. She came fairly fast though so I didn’t drag it out either. Probably 2-3 minutes of hard fucking.

I think for her it was when she was getting fucked hard while another guy played with her clit - she loves having lots of hands on her while she’s being fucked. She came very hard from that a few times. For me, it was hearing her telling guys what to do - she’s more passive with me usually, so I love seeing that side of her. I would say she enjoys it more physically, I get more out of it mentally.

No, haven’t been recognized. They know what we do but we don’t share videos, try to keep a certain boundary there.

Found most of the guys through local r4r posts, some we had been with before in smaller scale events.

Zero. Which isn’t to say we think it won’t/can’t happen, mind you, but we’ve been fortunate so far.

Under 5”, and/or less thick than me.

Bare simply feels better, and we both find it more mentally arousing. Also in the context of a gangbang, condoms irritate - she was much more raw after her first gangbang (where we used condoms and copious lube) than this one (no condoms, little or no need for lube). So we’re willing to take the risk for those trade-offs.

It was about 4.5 years since the last gangbang…I don’t think it’ll be that long but it’s not going to be a guaranteed yearly thing or anything like that. I’d love to set up something with 2-3 women and 10-15 guys, but finding the right women will be a huge challenge I’m sure.

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To some degree…honestly I was expecting more of a funk this time but the guys came in more of a spaced out way so it wasn’t too bad. If you have 6 guys all in the same room…yeah it’s gonna be a bit sweaty/musky, especially in the summer.

It’s largely a right place right time thing. Just keep an eye for ads in all the places - local r4r, Fetlife gangbang forums, swinger sites that are popular in your area. It will take a lot of time and work to figure out where your best odds are, but it’s achievable if you put the time in.

I had about a dozen that had RSVPd are various points (never had more than 8 at a time - guys would cancel or stop responding and I’d replace them), but going into the morning I thought I had 8. We had two that said they were coming (texted with them that day) and then no-showed.

Rules were sent by text message, which was how I communicated with everyone. Mainly no anal, no cumming on her face, and originally no blowjobs, but one guy asked and she was feeling it so she ended up sucking most of the guys (she has a bad gag reflex so it’s always something we have to be careful with, but everyone was respectful). No issues with people breaking the rules.

I do enjoy reclaiming and I do enjoy it sloppy. It is more intimate, that said, I did get this one on camera. Haven’t posted it yet but will sometime over the weekend or next week.

Yeah, I would say it’s a regular feature of our lives but it’s not our main hobby, if that makes sense. And yes, she has an IUD.

This is our second gangbang in the seven years we’ve been together- so not super often. We play overall maybe 4-5 times a year. Usually a little more in the earlier part of a calendar year, less toward the end of the year due to how our work/life balances tend to shake out.

No to both so far, but we’re realistic about the risk.

We test ourselves and are on PreP. We ask the guys if they’re clean but at the end of the day there’s always a risk, so we don’t go too far down the rabbit hole in terms of making people show recent tests (they’re easy to fake, and it’s not like you can call to verify them with someone’s doctor). We each always get tested quarterly, but staggered. She’ll get an extra test after this one just to be safe.

I’m not sure actually…I don’t think too much though. Between how wet she was naturally and all the creampies it wasn’t really needed. Someone might have used some when I was paying attention to something else, but I don’t think so. I didn’t need any at the end when we fucked after everyone had left.

A good number of the guys had previous lifestyle and/or gangbang experience, which definitely helps. I think if you recruit based on that you get better numbers. If you’re aiming for a certain look/body type/age it’s probably harder.

It’s largely my perception based on how guys present themselves and communicate over a period of time. We’ve been doing this long enough that I’m pretty good at getting a sense of whether someone will work or not. STI-wise, I ask guys their status but realistically that’s always a risk. We both take PreP, so that largely removes the HIV risk. Otherwise we just test ourselves and are understand that there’s always a chance it’ll go south, but I’d rather be doing this than freehand rock climbing 🤷‍♂️. We are done having kids, so overall reproductive health isn’t a huge concern.

I started with threesomes but had participated in three gangbangs by my early 30s. My wife’s first experience was kind of a drunk thing with coworkers at the bar she was working (in her very early 20s) that turned into group sex. But together we worked up to a gangbang from smaller scale stuff.

It was a blast!

No she lets me handle everything. I know generally what her turn offs are so I avoid guys I know she really wouldn’t be into, but otherwise she’s pretty flexible.

You’re welcome!

Nope, not our thing