Hello Ladies and Gentlemans of hornyville... i mean reddit. Ive done a lot of peeping looking and analyzing of the current state of both r/njr4r and r/nj4nj as well as many other subreddits. I have some better, more thought of and improved tips on nearly guarenteeing you dont even waste your energy to type with your one hand on commenting on any f4 ___ post .

1. CHECK THEIR ACCOUNT FIRST! instagram = insta scamm. they want you to add em on ur main account to try to threaten you/blackmail etc. why would any real/legit woman wanna link u to their PERSONAL INSTAGRAM to talk? snapchat way more anonymitty and such.
   EDIT* ALSO, if their post history shows they are posting from 5 diff states within 5 hours.. ya know...

2. Speaking of snapchat... i have recently learned, that these scammers have the capability of faking snaps. NO im not jk, ive seen it done with a full on video and even some pics. IDK how, if you do DM me ill add to this post. Verification is becoming tougher because of this so please even if you believe you got proof. take caution (both parties) until otherwise. Unfortunately.. mostly the f4___ are the guilty scammers cuz guys are the majority not the minority in many scenarios here.

3. Verification, its honestly very nice to get this done early, but sometimes (Even myself), need to be a bit patient before barraging a person to ask for this. YOU NEED more than a single picture for verification now... 1 can be faked idk how maybe they pay people off i have no fucking clue. But they use apps to write on the paper what ever you want. i had someone try to be fucking bree olsen and they "verified". the paper was a bit smudgy cuz it was a clear edit.

4. Be cautious and be safe, not just for you, but for the other party. Realizing that girls especially get TONS of dms,views on their post. Dont be annoying and be safe . dont show your face to randoms because thats screaming "blackmail me fucker". when you get closer to the other party, go ahead and do so . same applies with our dick.

5. DONT PAY FOR SHIT FIRST or "upfront". This is the easy guilt bait to get you to pay for gas, drugs, or the newest scamm. everyone and their fucking moms in NJ are magically "masseuses" who wanna massage you then rub you off but require a deposit b4 meeting u. Verification alone nullifies like.. 80% of the scammers.

6. please stop posting your dick pics/posts 5 times a day, it clutters it for everyone and makes it annoying for everyone else. if girls want it they will ask for it. just my two cents here.

So please, STAY SAFE! and i hope this helps everyone. I'm writing this out of pure love for everyone and for what NJr4r and other subreddits like this have done for me. i personally have talked to a lot of nice people. and i only want everyone to benefit from this. not get hurt/time wasted by fucking loser scammers tryina steal your motherfucking time, or money.