I am a 35-year-old submissive guy with very little sexual experience. Iām happy to get into specifics, but suffice it to say I have not had much of a sex life for most of my adult life. I have, however, indulged in some BDSM, and I have a major "forced" bi fetish.
I am looking for a dominant woman or a couple willing to show me the ropes ā literally and figuratively. I am especially interested in becoming proficient at oral sex with both women and men, and in general, I enjoy play that makes me feel dirty and desperate. Other specific kink interests include bondage, anal, sensory deprivation, and light impact play. My limits are toilet stuff, kissing or rimming a man, CBT, extreme pain, and blood. (Please do not try to talk me into violating my limits.) Iām not into humiliation, particularly as relates to my lack of experience or sexual prowess with women.
Physically, Iām 5ā8 and 155 pounds, with a shaved head and a beard. I think I'm reasonably attractive, and I'm in decent shape. My dick is unremarkable. I'm not sure I could pick it out of a lineup.
When I'm not perving on reddit, I enjoy watching baseball, reading, and playing with my nieces and nephew. My leftist politics are very important to me. Ideally Iād like to connect with people who share my values. I live in northern New Jersey (Bergen County) and cannot host. I have a car and access to public transit, and I'm willing to travel about 90 minutes (which includes NYC).
Send me a message with a little about yourself (and your partner, if applicable) if you think we might be compatible. Please include a picture in your first handful of messages. I'd rather save us both the hassle of exchanging tons of messages only to learn that there's no attraction.
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