Hi, this will be a long one so let me get straight to the point. I'm in a committed and closed polyamorous relationship (polyfidelity) of 8 years with my wife and husband. We take our family very seriously and have been trying to grow our family over the past few years to no avail. We’ve seem to come across a lot of women who like to toy with our emotions or use us, then leave. So what are we looking for?

My husband is a TPE 24/7 BDSM Master. He's been in the lifestyle for about 20 years or so. My wife and I are considered vanilla. SO! Ideally we're looking for a fourth partner who's not vanilla! Who can have a M/s dynamic with him, as well as being bf and gf. To be clear - we're ALL looking for gf. We’re all in a relationship with each other. We're a (growing) family and we're looking for something serious, a LTR. The ultimate goal is marriage. We've been lied to A LOT through out the years. We've been through a lot - to say the least, and eventually that takes a toll on someone but..we're not giving up! I'd love to find that missing piece of the puzzle -cheesy and corny but so true! Being a Master is part of who he is and not having that (huge) part of him fulfilled is heart breaking.

He is a sadist! He is strict but at the same time very caring. It's a pretty good balance. He's a big practitioner of the modern side of bdsm with some gorean traits. He's very direct and wholeheartedly believes in open communication!!! Trust is a big factor in his life as well as constant communication. Yes he wants a slave, but he doesn't view his slave as just a slave. It’s an extension of him. He’s big on worship and the spirituality of BDSM also. As a TPE 24/7 Master it's a relationship and he tries to strike an equal balance between the two. Respect, honor, worship are important but that doesn't mean you two (or maybe all of us) can’t go on a date and he can't open a door for you every now and then. He's also a hopeless romantic and likes to express his care and affection.

Limits: He's a sexual deviant. He's into anything and everything that doesn't involve age play (DD qualities he can understand) or anything to do with a man which also includes pegging. Scat and legitimate genuine abuse is also a no go.

It doesn’t matter where you live, if things end up going extremely well then we would hope you could relocate!

So if any of this sparks any interest, please send me a message! I'm an open book! We can discuss further details.

Disclaimer - It's sad that I have to add this on but, my husband did not send me here. Nobody did! I just took it upon myself and actually try and help find our future partner! :)