Hello there reader, I’m hoping you can help me out with enjoying some life for awhile. See, I’m not from here, originally I’m from the Midwest. I first came to NJ a few years ago due to a complicated situation where I was helping out somebody I cared about, which unfortunately did not go very well and for some time left me in a relationship that was lacking in physical affection and recreation. Now that’s all changing and I’ll soon be on my own again, currently working on a plan to move back closer to the people and places I know. I might only be here another year or so. NJ is a beautiful state with lots of wonderful things I still want to do, too many to want to do on my own. That’s why I’d love to find a friend/FWB to go do stuff with, keep each other company and show each other a good time in and out of the bedroom, chat about our interests, brighten each other’s days. I just don’t want to look for anything too serious for now. If this interests you I’ll get into the details and hopefully we can chat!

So, a little bit about me. Physically, I’m white with brown hair and a beard, 5’7, bit of a dad bod. I’ll have face pics to send so you know what you’re dealing with. Drug and disease free and have no trouble proving it with a test if needed. Pretty introverted, and a better listener than talker, but I do try my best to be a good conversation partner. I do have a car and a job and while I’m not rich, I get by with enough left over to have fun once in a while. My job is tough to work around, I work late and as a result am a night owl so unless you are too days off are better for me, which are also not regular but most often come at the start of a week. No real bad habits apart from unhealthy food and I try to be respectful at all times.

As for who I’m looking for, it’s mostly a blank slate. I’d like someone roughly within 10 years of me either way. Someone honest and hygienic, not into hard drugs or other risky behaviors. I’m not trying to mess up someone else’s relationship either. Ideally someone open to trying new activities, interested in doing things like going to movies and musicals, sporting events, restaurants, festivals, walks, and other interesting things that can be found around here. Not trying to be picky with what I’m looking for, but everyone has preferences, and if you’re on the thicker side, have a nice butt, or have dark eyes/hair you’ve found my weakness. Also bonus points if you have a cat I can dote on.

So that’s about it for now, if you’re still interested send me a message and we can talk more details. Given the nature of this sub I will need to ask for some sort of verification that I’m not talking to a bot or someone looking to sell something. Also if you read this far thanks for taking your time and I hope you have a lovely rest of your day