To start this will probably be a long post, so I would like to thank you for reading. It is also important to note that I am looking for a genuine relationship with someone and this lifestyle is the added bonus.

I would consider myself to be dominate by nature in my everyday life which brings me to this lifestyle. What I am hoping from this relationship would be a bit more intense than your average D/S relationship. I would say I have emotional masochist tendencies. I want to make you tick, push all of your buttons. I want to make you feel inferior. You should question your every move. You should know when you get dressed in the morning your picking that outfit because you know it's what i'd want you to wear. When you paint your nails you should know which color I want them to be. You should feel uncomfortable saying no to me (within limits) and accept that your submitting to me.

As your Dom you should understand that I own you. I will make your decisions, I can set up a routine for you, I will cherish and I will praise you. As a Dom I know how to do this online. If I'm giving you punishment I won't just say "hit yourself with a belt" I will tell you exactly which way to bend or lean. I will tell you how to properly fold the belt, I will decide if the buckle should be the part to hit you. I do this because it turns me on knowing your obeying me.

While I have given you a glimpse of kink me I would really like for you to know the vanilla me and I would love to know the vanilla you. I am nerd at heart. I work with computers all day. I would say i'm in line with a technology nerd rather than a star wars nerd. I enjoy the simple things in life such as going into the pool in the summer, taking long walks in the woods or random cities, traveling and just enjoying life. I am a very outgoing person and can get along with anyone.

Physically I am 5'8 and in shape. I am active and go to the gym and take care of myself.

While I did give you some examples of kinks I will list some:

• Degradation/praise
• Ownership
• Spanking/Slapping
• Punishment
• Possession
• Orgasm control

Limits: * Blood/Scat * Any bodily fluids * Incest * Beastiality

If you made it this far I have a few disclaimers:

• I am married, and I have a child. I am in NO position to leave, however that will not deter me from creating a relationship with you.
• While i'm based out of NJ i don't mind where your located but east coast is prefered.
• I do intend to meet, so please if you reach out have intentions of meeting at some point.

Ok I will end here. If you are interested please send me a chat and I look forward to hearing from you.